Dating Advice for Men- Do’s and Don’ts

When you go out on a date with a pretty girl and you’re wondering to yourself, just how to not mess up, there are a few basic things you can follow to ensure that there will be a second date. Getting her to agree to go out is not mission accomplished; you have to make sure that there will be a second date as well. Be a gentleman, treat her well, pay the bill and definitely ensure that she is comfortable with whatever you plan for your date. Following are a few things you should keep in mind for a successful date.

Asking Her Out

You need to be careful when asking a girl out, you can’t be too demanding or sound too desperate. If your tone is demanding then she will say no outright, because she will not be comfortable with you. If you sound too desperate she will think that you are not serious and are not someone she can count on. Be comfortable with yourself and most importantly be yourself and she will most definitely say yes.

Taking Her Out

Give her the option of giving her a lift or asking if she get there by herself. Also be considerate what you choose to do for your date. Are you going for a movie and some dinner, or a concert or going to a park or something. Make sure she is comfortable with whatever you choose to do for your date.

Paying the Bill

I know that it is an equal world out there, and no matter how much women say they are equals, they expect the men to pay the bill. This is not about the money but rather the act of being a gentleman.

The one thing the women hate is men overdoing it. You should really try and be yourself rather than trying to be overconfident or over charming, because women see right through that. You may have your set of bad habits; everyone does, but try and be polite and decent on your first date. It takes a few dates to get comfortable enough to really show each other’s’ true inner forms. Dating is all about clicking with the other person. You need to just be yourself and see where it plays you.

One last piece of advice with regards to what to wear is to be neutral; neither too formal nor too casual. Wearing dress pants and dress shirt for a movie and a dinner is not a good idea. Likewise, wearing jeans and T-shirt to a fancy restaurant for dinner is also not a good idea. Just keep your balance and you will be fine.