Love questions to ask

When we fall in love, nothing seems perfect apart from that ‘special’ person. The initial stages of the affair pass in a turmoil of happiness and the good feeling that you are together. But gradually you start to question your relationship. Whether being in a relationship was a good decision or not? Whether the other person is happy with you or not? Do you understand each other well enough to take the relation to a next level? , and whether he or she is the best choice or not?
Such questions are difficult to answer on an individual level. It is important to know your spouse inside out to know the right answers and turn your relationship into the best possible one. But when you are on the road to ask some technical and personal questions from them, make sure that you catch them in the right mood. Also do not be judgmental about their answers, as this will lead to an argument, also they might lose the confidence to express their feelings In front of you which will then lead to a lot of misunderstandings. Your opinion is very important and has its own weightage, but do remember that their opinions should also be given the same amount of respect and importance. Remember its not about what you want them to say, it’s about what they want to tell you, and it might be a bit harsh sometimes but then compromise is what makes the relationship stronger.
If the questions are about their past life, before they met you, don’t be too emotional about it, because they are not to be blamed for some past incident and judged on it too harshly as they did not know you at that time and have been through it without any hidden motives. But yes you may question their loyalty once you are in a relationship with them.
In order to know your girlfriend or boyfriend better, here are some starters on witch you may build on a conversation, but keep the dos and don’ts in mind as you start on the conversation. Prepare yourself for all the pleasantries as well as unpleasant remarks. You may begin with, what was the reason for your attraction towards me, when you saw me for the first time? Is there anything you would like me to change about myself? What kind of a life do you wish for?
Such day to day questions will help you open up with each other and increase your understanding.